Hello, juicy one. This is essential reading for new clients. Please read through both the Expectations + Elaborations and The Consent + Discretion Agreement before requesting a session.You will need to complete a New Client Intake form before requesting a New Client session. Use the button below or find a link on the request page. Important! I do not book or communicate by phone or text.
Expectations + Elaborations
I do not book or communicate with clients by text
An intake form is required for request approval
first things first
all clients must read the consent and discretion agreement prior to booking and attending their first session (it can be found in the next section of this page).
this is not an escort service or a place where you are entitled to sxual services
the ritual/work is called Somatic Intimacy and we will create the space together in a way that makes the most sense for you
I am first and foremost a professional 'toucher' but we can absolutely just talk if that's what you need.
My services are rooted in touch, the senses, pleasure, and the awareness of such.
everything i offer has been designed solely by me through informed experimentation and pure exploration of my god given gifts
i do not adhere nor teach from any one particular lineage or tradition of spirituality/religion/school of thought - i study from a wiiiiide range of teachers and paths (including the path i paved for myself)
frankly, i believe religion and even new age spirituality feels extremely exploitative, shame driven, and dictated by an everlasting fear of never being okay - so i've made up my own doctrine of divinity and i honor the doctrines you bring with you :)
although i am a very spiritual person, you do not need to be on a spiritual path to find benefit from this work
disclaimer: i am not going to be a good fit for everyone - and that's cooool!
new clients + long time no sees
new clients (and anyone who hasn't been in for 2+ years) must choose the new client session
i do not arrange bookings by text or email - if you ask, it will be obvious to me that you have yet to read this website and i will direct you back here
I cannot approve a booking request without this form completed
NEW! AUGUST 2023: Talk + Light Touch Session - Use for soft touch over clothing, somatic release through conversation, and/or somatic listening
NEW! AUGUST 2023: Sliding Scale Session - Use with your own grace :)
requesting a session
the only way to request a session is on this website
all appointments need to be approved and confirmed
if it doesn't work out, the request will be denied (seems harsh, but it isn't)
you will receive an email that informs you it was accepted or denied, either way
24 hours prior to your appointment: you will receive an automatic email confirming your session; please confirm your session with me! i love confirmations - you can text me, too
I do not take same-day sessions - appointments can be booked up to 12 hours in advance and no more than 40 days out
all clients must agree to the cancellation policy which asks all cancellations to come with a $50 slot holding fee to be paid by venmo @foxella or otherwise agreed upon
if I have to cancel the session, I will offer $50 off or a free 15 minutes for your rescheduled appointment at my discretion
does not apply for appointments approved less than 12 hours before session starts
night-before or morning-of confirmation texts are preferred - expect that i will attempt to receive a confirmation from you. you are welcome to respond to the auto email you receive 24 hours in advance
i never answer phone calls unless we have a scheduled phone call appointment
FULL DISCLOSURE: i am fully aware that i am hard to get a hold of: i do not check my texts or emails on any regular schedule :)
the absolute best way to get my attention is to request a session from this website
i welcome inquiry emails - please expect up to a week (or more) to hear back from me :)
the space + accessibility
studio is located on the 2nd floor with 9 steps to climb from main entrance
bathroom available within 10 steps of space door
please let me know if you have accessibility needs - outcalls are available in the twin cities area (see map in requests)
parking and arrival
730 E. 38th Street (the goodridge offices building) is located within George Floyd Square
you can park on Columbus Ave or E. 38th street
I am located within the bounds of George Floyd Square - enter it with respect and dignity for those who are present
when you arrive/park it is imperative that you send me a text so I can promptly meet you at the front door of the building to let you in
i am usually ready 10-15 minutes early - in that case i will send you a text saying: "I'm ready when you are!" - then you can let me know when you have parked and are walking over
appointment time begins at the scheduled time unless otherwise communicated with me
your time starts at the scheduled time and arriving early does not increase the time of session
lost time will be expected to be compensated but not necessarily made up for
i operate under regulations set by The MN Department of Unlicensed Complimentary and Alternative Healthcare Practices and the City of Minneapolis ordinances for massage establishment
i am required to offer you the state's client bill of rights
there are regulations on Prohibited Conduct that lays out guidelines for true, safe, and ethical practices
the State of MN does not have educational requirements to practice alternative care or therapies including massage, bodywork, energy work, sex education, or other services available here
the regulating agency for sex therapists and sexuality educators is AASECT; nearly all of my classes on sex and sexuality are approved courses taught by AASECT approved teachers - i have taken a variety of deep dives into a spectrum of erotic teachings from lots of sources within and outside the realm of accredited institutional knowledge
please refrain from using words that imply illegal activity when you communicate with me - these will be ignored and/or blocked
licensure + credentials
I do not value institutions that are based on educational merits because they perpetuate colonial and capitalist standards that don't jive well with me
My studies are extremely personal, deeply intentional, and informed through the continued practice with clients
considerations for time + "bundles"
cash and cards are accepted (small fee for cards on square)
cards are seen on statements as: sacred connection
tips are welcome, obviously ;)
Bundles: ~10% discounts are provided when 3 or more hours are paid for in advance
new client session flow
new clients can expect a 5-15 minute discussion about my philosophy, our boundaries, and session details - you will be on the table for 50-55 min
you will be asked about your experience and what brought you to the space
i will ask about allergies (specifically almonds), no-zones, and injuries
you will have ample time to inform me of anything you find pertinent and to ask questions
there is zero tolerance for any fluid exchange or body parts inside body parts - please don't ask
although tantra is greatly respected in the space of my work, i am not always interested in the way the west has appropriated it into the new age spirituality industry under imperial capitalism
i do not believe feminine and masculine energies are gendered
i am deeply connected to tantric principles, but i will not participate in the appropriation of it by upholding the teachings to a single lens of sxual practices as so many understand them today.
tantra is way more than sx! and it's not a code word for anything conventionally sxual:)
i request that you are at least aware of how the west has continued to appropriate ancient cultures for their own advantageous gain without giving credit, nor acknowledging the harm brought on people who gave us the knowledge in the first place
this work recognizes the land we are on as stolen from indigenous peoples
this work recognizes the labor that was (and still is) exploited from BIPOC during the emergence of our country, state, and city
Consent + Discretion Policy
Consent and Discretion Agreement
last updated: December 14, 2022
As a client of Elle Fox you are asked to review the following consent and discretion agreement. These statements must be agreed upon prior to the initiation of services. If you have any questions or concerns, please speak them with an honest mind and heart. Open communication is highly appreciated.
As a client and/or provider of somatic healing with bodywork, energy healing, and intuitive arts… (And as a conscious, breathing human…)
• I take full responsibility for my body and my actions towards other people. I will not place intentional harm onto myself or another person.
• I have the right to feel safe and to say NO when it feels right to do so. I will speak up when I am feeling uncomfortable.
• I have the right to say YES when it feels right to do so. I will give permission on how I am to be touched.
• I have the right to change my YES to a NO. I can change my mind. Consent is fluid and can change.
• I will ask permission to touch another person and respect their boundaries. I will not touch before asking or without given permission.
• I will provide clear boundaries on where and how I desire to be touched.
As a provider, Elle agrees to the following statements:
• I will not share client’s private information.
• I will not discuss session details with anyone without written permission from the client. I will not falsify testimonials based on your experiences. You have full ownership of your testimonial if you have one.
• I will not share session notes and will use best practices to keep them private. I may keep notes on sessions for the following purposes: to remember who you are, your requests, your goals, previously discussed likes, don’t likes [face cradle, hot stones, etc.], and any other information that is helpful as we progress.
• I will not cause harm to your personal reputation or go public with what occurs in our private sessions beyond what is necessary to protect my bodily rights.
• I will not pursue a personal relationship outside of professional boundaries.
As a client, you agree to the following statements:
• I will not share or post my provider’s private information anywhere on the internet.
• I will not post my provider’s information on any website, including review sites, advertising sites, or other website without her direct permission in writing.
• I will not infringe on my provider’s basic copyright protection (posting pictures without permission, using direct language from provider’s personal social media accounts or advertisements, etc.)
• I will not pursue a personal relationship with my provider outside of professional boundaries.
• I understand my rights as a client of Alternative Medicine under State of MN Statute.
• If I see my provider listed on a site that does not seem to align with her scope of practice, I will notify my provider.
• I understand that my name, phone number, email address, and/or other information may be requested and used to verify who I am. I agree to provide all information requested for my provider to appropriately practice highest safety standards.
Dear Curious Person
dear curious person,
divine work is mysterious - often obscure, yet extremely clarifying
sloshing around in the weave of what makes two into one
finding pleasure in places we don't have to reach for
because its just...in us
expanding into the depths of unity with divine power
is slightly terrifying
and often indescribable
recognizing our power is equally terrifying
yet, here it lies - - within each of us
waiting to release from the knots of conventional oppression
somatic divine work is revolutionary work
this is sacred shit
we use poetry, math, trees, prayer, ritual, our bodies, etc.
to find a semblance of harmony
with ourselves, the divine, and our communities in between
we dance in the twister of liminal existence
penetrating through multiple dimensions as time unfolds into the divine
a session is like a non-problematic glitch
a little blip of urka-urka to disrupt
any disregulation just for a moment
a tiny weensy little reminder of pleasure
or maybe even god (her palm always available for us to rest in)
just a beautiful little glitch that we can use as a portal to the multidimensional cauldron of molten gold in our pelvic bowls
the s*x is happening inside of you
the intimacy is already there
right now even
working its magick on you
by tapping into it - becoming aware of it, being with it
we let it cleanse and heal us as we recover from punitive systems of repression within and around us
on a deeeeeeeeeep level
maybe even genetically (i dunno, but maybe!)
this is ecstatic living
with all it's miracles
in a divine dance
to the music
of our vibration
there is a lot happening here
more than i can describe with words
but one thing that is not here is conventional sx
the sx we find here is already happening in the cosmic juices bubbling within you
I'm just helping you realize it
and play in it
because getting dirty in it is a blast
If working with a sensually spiritual somatic touch professional who focuses on bodily intimacy is what feels right for you - then we're probably a good match ;)
please treat, think about, and uphold sx workers in your highest regards
pay for your porn
support decriminalization movements
and listen to people with lived experience
don't conflate forced and consensual labor
don't ask for free nudes...from anyone
don't send unsolicited nudes...to anyone
don't be an entitled bag of shit brains
and check your blueprints at the fucking door
...and read more bell hooks - her work can probably help you better than I ever could
New Client Consent Packet
Consent Garden Image: an expanded explanation of consent being practiced during Somatic Intimacy using FRIES*
F: Freely Given
E: Engaged (formerly Enthusiastic)
*adapted from Planned Parenthood
**Correction: Touch does not happen "underneath" a towel - The towel is underneath the touch. Every session begins with touch with a towel, starting at the feet.