Sense of You

An authentic sense of self through pleasure that is both uplifting and relaxing emerges through a sensual method of affective touch - this is something I have the honor of witnessing with my work.

The fear, the shame, the resistance and hesitancy are faced with courage, audacity, and sustenance when the nervous system has a chance to embrace itself in whole and in safety.

It is the bravery that allows the magical threads weave together around an untangling that leaves us suspended in the tapestry of wisdom that pleasure insists itself upon. It is the willingness to fuck around and find out - to take chances, and to find out you were wrong - that contains the deepest wells of authentic expression.

I am often as dumbfounded as I am not surprised in the pure grit and grace that arises when the nervous system is held in safety and dignity. Dumbfounded because, how is it that easy? Not surprised because, of course it's that easy. Yet, I can recognize this ease isn't rooted in ease itself - it is better understood for me as being rooted in something furiously ready to be unleashed.

To surrender and allow the nervous system, through the flesh, to do what it knows what to do - to become comfortable in the great discomfort of change and transformation...this is where the alchemy happens and consistently exists for us to tap into. The wealth of wisdom and the possibility of an immense uprising can be terrifying - and along with that terrified tremble comes a desire that points to our truest selves.

You might come for the pleasure and stay for the revealing of who you are.

You might come to reveal yourself to yourself and stay for the pleasure.

However you find this work, its essence is to meet you upon an ancient lineage of raw sovereignty. It is meant to meet you as the human you are with all your capacity to dream and want and need.

The pleasure is the point - because with pleasure, we are able to discern our suffering with light eyes, with softness and a tender tandem of harmony.

To not be bothered is never the point - we need to be bothered. We must learn to surrender to the truth of our upsets as whisperings of our values, passions, and alignment with the world we live in. Letting dysregulation in as a necessary friend of the process is how we grow capacity to tune in.

Attunement to the erotic isn't just about ground-breaking orgasms. It is about being with life as the great orgasm of existence, with its peaks and valleys and pendulums of nuance. Expanding the space for activation will only expand the space for authenticity.

I mean, sure...yes, have great sex. Seek it out.

Yes, let yourself be witnessed through touch. Know how to ask for it and how to receive it.

Yes, find the moments that leave you roaring into the shadows of night.

And always recognize the agency and heartache it took to get there.

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Level II Announcement

After a long and painstaking process of overthinking - I have decided to begin offering two hour sessions to accommodate the needs of those who seek out deeper exploration of co-created space of experiential discovery. It has become very clear to me that many of my clients are looking for more than just bodywork. You are looking for a deep connection to yourself in an authentic rooted space with another person to support and guide you through the veils you carry with you.

These sessions will incorporate more breath work, somatic tools, and guided interoception with the purpose of discovering sensual sovereignty and embodiment of pleasure. For those who are interested in erotic embodiment and spiritual sexuality, there will be something for you, too. Let this be a returning and a welcoming to yourself through pleasure, relaxation, and juicy agency.

As always, although this work is universal there is never a universal reception of it. You are always bringing a distinct perspective of this work with you and as such, we will honor your ideas, desires, and values in making every session personalized for you. I have never been in favor of prescribing this work in a one-size-fits-all fashion.

For those living on the fringe of sensual domination, kink and fetish exploration will be available to discuss with extra consideration. We can discuss sensation play, constraints, scene design, and whatever else your sweet heart desires in the gentle arena of vanilla play.

A package of three 2-hour sessions is available for savings and planning purposes. Stand alone sessions are also available.

For new clients who have never seen me before, our first session will include my standard introduction session to establish trust and care plus additional space to begin the discovery process; you will still need to book the 90-minute introduction session.

For returning clients who are looking to embrace deeper work, we can start with a call to establish how we will work together moving forward if that feels best - simply book yourself a phone call to get started. If you are otherwise ready to start the work, feel free to book the new Level II session.

I so look forward to working with you.

The best is ours,

Elle